How to orgasm(2/4)
We’ve all heard generic tips on how to have an orgasm: relax, focus on foreplay, grab some lube. All effective. But when it comes to orgasms, it’s not all about the g-spot and the clitoris. There are many different orgasm types, a whole wide world of erogenous zones—and many paths to explore.
“Orgasms are a subjective experience, and everyone feels different,” says Alexandra Fine, CEO and Co-Founder of Dame Products. “You will likely experience contractions and a tingly skin sensation.” If sexual health and sex education were properly taught, we’d know that whether it’s masturbation or partnered sex, the more you understand your body, what it’s capable of, what it prefers, and what it doesn’t, the more apt we’d all be to have better sex lives. Here are other few tips on how to orgasm:
Vary up your touch
There are tons of ways to masturbate, so don't be discouraged if what you've tried isn't working so far. You may need rapid tapping motions, constant pressure, a slow circular rhythm with increasing pressure, or some other combination. Luckily, we’ve talked with the experts to gather the best solo sex tips you can try if you (and your clitoris) need a little ~inspiration.~.
Buy a vibrator
If manual stimulation or friction during sex aren't getting you there, trade up for some electronic assistance. There's nothing wrong with incorporating sex toys into your solo OR partnered sex life (don't let anyone convince you otherwise), so try a vibrator and see if it takes things to the next level.
explore multimedia
Whoever said you couldn't get a little help? Try reading or watching some sexy stuff—erotica, porn, or listening to some hot music.
Fantasize
Think about a hot scenario before, and yes, during sex. (A lot of people worry this is somehow wrong, like mental cheating. It's not.) So try it out and see if it works for you—replay a hot moment you had last year, daydream about Ryan Gosling, or think about a vision of what's to come.
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